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Whispers of the Heart

With love, kindness and compassion anything is possible.

It takes courage to venture out unto the unknown on a path very few have traveled. Face adversity with love and compassion and you will move mountains. More importantly, you will stir the inner emotions of others which may have never been stirred before. Embrace the unknown with love and courage. Know, obstacles are there to teach you, to show you strength within you have not noticed until now. Go forth and tame the beast spreading love, light and peace to all. ♥sKr♥

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Men demystified

Rhonda Mae

Drake & Chris Brown are beefing? Kroy Bierman is still married to Kim? All the sisters of Tina & Erica (aka Mary Mary) are in happy, monogamous relationships? These headlines sound crazy, but they’re what I found circulating the news recently. And with Father’s Day just behind us, it made me start thinking about the men in general and the men in my life.

I’m not sure if I’m one of those women with ‘daddy issues’, but to answer your question, no, I don’t have a relationship with him. Haven’t seen it have much of an impact on my encounters with guys I’m dating, either. But the idea of Father’s Day (and Mother’s Day for that matter) sort of makes me gag! Sue me. I just think that fathers around the nation want something more than a barbecue & and new necktie on a hot Sunday in June.

I’ve also…

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The Davey Jones method

I once heard that those who are heartless once cared to much. I was always the guy that the chick would end the relationship telling me I would end up stepped on. I was the guy that the term cute an sweet was used to describe me. Something had to change so yes, I cut out my heart an locked it away in a chest deep within the Arctic so I can never feel again. My mission now is simply to learn an perfect the game. My mind is always there but it has been my heart that keeps me from letting go. As the years tick away an I get stuck attempting to court one girl for months I realize a change must be made. With my heart gone rejection can longer stop me an strong emotion can’t cloud my judgement. I believe this is best for me, life is short so I might as well enjoy it! 

Online Dating help

Okay so I have tried online dating for a few years with no success. I have only had one date which came from match.com an the rest nothing. I have paid for eharmony, match, OkCupid, POF an a bunch more little known sites. Still no dice, my profile was honest an written by myself completely filled out. I’ve done the tests an piled pictures on my profiles. I took my time to read the profiles an sent genuine answers to them an received no replies. So what am I doing wrong?  I often say if they would just give me a chance, but it seems that I can’t seem to get that. So one day I happened across a site that gave me a guaranteed line to get responses. So I typed it in an sure enough! every woman I sent it to responded! I was baffled that a line that made absolutely no sense an applied to nothing on the profile could be successful. I tried this line on even the hottest ones that never reply an it also worked on them. SO are online dating women really that naive? That I can send a one liner to 100 women an get a reply without even looking at the profile? If I read an take the time to write a good well thought out letter I strike out? This is why I stopped online dating. It proved to me that it wasn’t me it’s the women out there. So tell me if this isn’t true then what catches your attention? What do you like to read or see on a profile? What gets you to respond to a note?