In faith I Date

WARNING!! This is not a bashing of faith but more of a desire to understand some reasoning behind recent interactions…

The most commonly heard phrase that l have read or heard is I’m waiting on God to give me a man. I really don’t know how to take this phrase or I am focusing on God right now. They both sound a lot like the I am focusing on my career or more commonly I have a boyfriend. Should I add these to the book of little white lies women tell? I could place them on the lists of nice ways to say I’m not interested.. 

I could be completely wrong here but I was also raised to be a minister but I never remembered much about pre-marriage relationships. These answers sound like excuses for different personality flaws or quite possibly denial. I believe they we have to take the first steps, it’s highly unlikely that a light from heaven is going to shine down on a man an voice say this is the one for you. I have NEVER seen this happen, I have also seen a lot of christians divorce. What does this mean? Does it mean you picked before God shined the heavenly light on the right one? 

Religion is a touchy subject, but since I have been there an have seen very little in the Bible about dating I am curious as to where all these sayings an excuses are coming from.  Those are perhaps the two statements theres no comeback from, I mean if God didn’t shine the light on you then there must be zero hope an you don’t want to be the reason someone loses focus on God.

I often wonder that with the changing of society how would people reinterpret religion an the Bible. My take is not having a shiny light or an appfinity that a guy is the man for you doesn’t mean you shouldn’t give him a chance. Asking God for a man is about as asking God for cold hard cash probably not going to happen. An if it does he may not be what you physically want an you will just once again pawn him off. 

So I ask you how do you interpet those two phrases?

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The Death of Patience?

Hi how are you? How much do you enjoy nursing?…. 

Most boring dating site message ever! RIght ladies, even though I went through the trouble to read your entire profile an message you a legit question it’s just not eye catching enough. I understand you get 100,000 messages a day an they all look the same besides the picture of the guy on the heading. I understand that being shallow is rather common I also understand that dating online is like shopping at a meat market that only the female knows the price.

I’ll start with every no reply is a rejection. I understand your profile says you’re open minded an willing to try new things. Lets reword this really quick to say what she means…

I am open minded however you must fit into my box in order for me to give it a shot.. Defeats the purpose of the post. Oh an my personal favorite if you have a question feel free to ask me. Let me reword this to say what she really means….

If you have a question an met my standards then ask an maybe you will get a reply.

Maybe Im slightly bitter from the time I put in or the simple fact that I can use one line an get any woman to reply. Online dating has become the same normal dating except you aren’t even rejected to your face. Okay there was my rant its good to be back. An ladies if you have any comments please feel free to bash me or give me you point of view.